Paula says:
February 28, 2011 at 11:22 pm
I can already see this devolving into “men do the Y bad thing, but they choose to do it because it works with women, so it’s not crazy; women do the X bad thing, but it’s because they’re emotional and irrational, and yes, crazy.”
Yes, there are crazy men. And there are men who are dishonest assholes, even though their strategy works to keep a woman constantly by their side. If you don’t want to call the latter guy crazy, then fine, but that doesn’t excuse his behavior.
If someone is going to choose me, I’d rather they do so through honest and straightforward communication, because the lies and manipulation are going to come out eventually, and I’d prefer it was before I’ve developed an attachment that he wants me to have. And if they’re not, it may take some time for me to realize it, because someone who wants to deceive you, if they’re any good at it, will probably be successful for at least some period of time.
But I’ll eventually be glad they’re not with me, and this social proof stuff is pretty much meaningless when that happens. Well-adjusted people don’t want to be with people who lie and deceive, and don’t get off on snagging someone like that from someone else.
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https://diapo.cemea.org/s/GMB6glXQsl
https://codimd.rhiobet.sh/s/XKWcaxTkT
https://campus.henryford.edu.ar/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Shut%20Up%20And%20Pull%20My%20Hair
https://doc.buzzrage.net/s/1Ff23nk4g
https://doc.cisti.org/s/Ser62AvU_
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https://pad.ura.design/s/A7XyCZA0d
https://editor.painelcupula.com/s/LFmNT5C0W
February 28, 2011 at 11:22 pm
I can already see this devolving into “men do the Y bad thing, but they choose to do it because it works with women, so it’s not crazy; women do the X bad thing, but it’s because they’re emotional and irrational, and yes, crazy.”
Yes, there are crazy men. And there are men who are dishonest assholes, even though their strategy works to keep a woman constantly by their side. If you don’t want to call the latter guy crazy, then fine, but that doesn’t excuse his behavior.
If someone is going to choose me, I’d rather they do so through honest and straightforward communication, because the lies and manipulation are going to come out eventually, and I’d prefer it was before I’ve developed an attachment that he wants me to have. And if they’re not, it may take some time for me to realize it, because someone who wants to deceive you, if they’re any good at it, will probably be successful for at least some period of time.
But I’ll eventually be glad they’re not with me, and this social proof stuff is pretty much meaningless when that happens. Well-adjusted people don’t want to be with people who lie and deceive, and don’t get off on snagging someone like that from someone else.
http://ribin.net/?ReasonsWhyYourExContinuesToUseYou
http://wenavis.org/?GameThatGuysRunEvenWhenWeDontKnowIt
https://formation-percolab.com/?IfYouLoveMeSayItIfYouWantMeShowIt
https://labodescommuns.org/?TheRealKeyToALastingMarriage
https://codi.ide3.de/s/xyNZGlirB
https://codimd.avt-imt.de/s/9kQTtVLS_
https://codimd.home.ins.uni-bonn.de/s/Hkv-5vragx
https://codimd.mim-libre.fr/s/yvixEp-bx
https://codimd.syssec.org/s/UIHUkQlkH
https://diapo.cemea.org/s/GMB6glXQsl
https://codimd.rhiobet.sh/s/XKWcaxTkT
https://campus.henryford.edu.ar/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Shut%20Up%20And%20Pull%20My%20Hair
https://doc.buzzrage.net/s/1Ff23nk4g
https://doc.cisti.org/s/Ser62AvU_
https://doc.fung.uy/s/Iqx4KDCs9
https://doc.gnuragist.es/s/ffCfAz53c
https://doc.head-publishing.ch/s/CZuRyFLKc
https://doc.isotronic.de/s/09AZi20En
https://docs.aj42.dk/s/_XtX20st8
https://docs.klg21.de/s/1QdGmdjPQ
https://md.farafin.de/s/naxcyGrTN
https://pad.batsense.net/s/7JrVBrglI
https://pad.ura.design/s/A7XyCZA0d
https://editor.painelcupula.com/s/LFmNT5C0W