How To Help Your Teen with a Broken Heart
Beyond a Broken Heart
Only the Lonely
What To Do When You Discover Your New Boyfriend Is Using Drugs
What Happens When Your Partner Quits Drinking?
I Was Addicted to an Addict
On Dating Without The Drink
7 Tips for Relationships in Early Recovery
A Codependent and a Narcissist Walk into a Meeting…
5 Reasons to Date in Your First Year of Sobriety
How To Fall in Love in Recovery
Addiction in a Home of Love
Five Relationships That Will Get You Drunk
Where to Look For (Sober) Love
Is Texting A Sign He Is Emotionally Unavailable?
This is a hugely important truth we all need to hear; our marital/romantic status is no longer a definitional yardstick for others to assess and judge our worthiness and acceptability as a human being. When people are judging and trying to limit us by defining us (by a variable such as marital/romantic status) – they are often covertly projecting their own internal judgment and limiting beliefs about themselves.
The trick is whether we are triggered by others’ judgments; we can choose to succumb to their judgments and make them mean something about us. Or, we can have a strong internal sense of who we really are (regardless of something transient like marital/romantic status as just one example) and easily ignore and courteously dismiss others’ innuendo and judgments, as lies.
If you look at the people out there who are teaching others to attract their life-partner soul mate (the burgeoning ‘love coach’ industry) the good teachers are those who have done the hard work and now have their own healing and results to show that they walk their talk because they have created an authentic true love committed/married soul mate partnership.
Most of these teachers are: older and wiser, who did not attract their soul mate until their late 30′s, 40′s, 50′s and beyond.
Indeed, sharing open generous true love, instead of getting some romantic attachment drama, seems to be a discovery that comes with acquired wisdom and thereby age. So it is also probably more likely for those who are older, who have had the courage to resist society’s pressure to settle for anyone in order to escape the judgments of peers and relatives (‘why aren’t you married yet?) by instead having faith, and meanwhile, going to the best ultimate love coach there is – your divine guiding wisdom within.
Beyond a Broken Heart
Only the Lonely
What To Do When You Discover Your New Boyfriend Is Using Drugs
What Happens When Your Partner Quits Drinking?
I Was Addicted to an Addict
On Dating Without The Drink
7 Tips for Relationships in Early Recovery
A Codependent and a Narcissist Walk into a Meeting…
5 Reasons to Date in Your First Year of Sobriety
How To Fall in Love in Recovery
Addiction in a Home of Love
Five Relationships That Will Get You Drunk
Where to Look For (Sober) Love
Is Texting A Sign He Is Emotionally Unavailable?
This is a hugely important truth we all need to hear; our marital/romantic status is no longer a definitional yardstick for others to assess and judge our worthiness and acceptability as a human being. When people are judging and trying to limit us by defining us (by a variable such as marital/romantic status) – they are often covertly projecting their own internal judgment and limiting beliefs about themselves.
The trick is whether we are triggered by others’ judgments; we can choose to succumb to their judgments and make them mean something about us. Or, we can have a strong internal sense of who we really are (regardless of something transient like marital/romantic status as just one example) and easily ignore and courteously dismiss others’ innuendo and judgments, as lies.
If you look at the people out there who are teaching others to attract their life-partner soul mate (the burgeoning ‘love coach’ industry) the good teachers are those who have done the hard work and now have their own healing and results to show that they walk their talk because they have created an authentic true love committed/married soul mate partnership.
Most of these teachers are: older and wiser, who did not attract their soul mate until their late 30′s, 40′s, 50′s and beyond.
Indeed, sharing open generous true love, instead of getting some romantic attachment drama, seems to be a discovery that comes with acquired wisdom and thereby age. So it is also probably more likely for those who are older, who have had the courage to resist society’s pressure to settle for anyone in order to escape the judgments of peers and relatives (‘why aren’t you married yet?) by instead having faith, and meanwhile, going to the best ultimate love coach there is – your divine guiding wisdom within.