to cope with traumatic events is distraction. Lose yourself in whatever you can find to consume yuor time - work, pastimes or whatever. Just so long as you keep occupied and busy, and let time pass without letting your mind obsess about the past.
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wrote on February 8 2010 @ 08:24 am: [report]
I’m not the type that usually has to “get over” someone, but I am usually kind of bummed that I end up losing a best friend and a boyfriend at the same time. I console myself by watching the newer Pride and Prejudice and swooning over Mr. Darcy. I also throw in a lot of James McAvoy? movies, and I fit Gone With the Wind in there too. By the end, I have so many dreamy guys dancing in my vision that it’s not in me to feel sad.
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wrote on February 8 2010 @ 08:35 am: [report]
And is that THE John DeVore? who’s giving advice in the article? Did he try to protect his identity by taking the “H” out of his first name? I’m onto you….