MSimon says:
December 4, 2014 at 5:42 am
Bastiat Blogger says:
December 3, 2014 at 5:57 pm
IMO you must totally disrespect them. At the same time you must give them an out. I have always told her, “Find a better man – for you – if you can.”
And I always work to see that she gets 20 or 50 tingles from me every day.
Another thing to practice – always know (feel) what she is feeling. Not that you should respect it, but for your advantage and to calibrate what you do it is essential to know it. I have been telling the first mate what she is feeling in my presence for decades. She agrees that I am near perfect at it. It is very interesting to feel what she feels.
I always try to push her a little farther in the direction that I want her to go than she is comfortable with. But not so far that she bails. Just a little outside her comfort zone. Continuously moving the zone in the direction I desire.
She says she has never been happier.
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Liz says:
December 4, 2014 at 6:41 am
“IMO you must totally disrespect them. At the same time you must give them an out. I have always told her, “Find a better man – for you – if you can.”