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@Wisdom
Yes honestly. I was just wondering.

I'm not suggesting that men should dictate what's good for women but trying to communicate and understand men better (today's generation) proves futile when one second you hear (from the same guys you are trying to understand):

DONT wait (1. cause you (the female) likes sex too and 2. CAUSE RARELY WILL YOU HEAR A DUDE SAY HE WILL MAKE A GIRL HIS GIRL BEFORE TAPPING THAT)

…then the next second you hear,

WAIT (1. it doesn't matter if you like sex as much the guy, 2. waiting means youre a good respectable girl, 3. waiting will lead to a serious relationship).

I have had 3 boyfriends before…2 made me their girlfriend before we ever had sex just because they were feeling me that much…not because I was holding out (the other one within a week of our 1st time). But, I have have a decent amt of guy friends and girl friends with guy friends and most (as in 99% of the guys) would say, if a girl makes them wait, they are out within a month or two. That's just reality (I thought)…correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm a researcher, but trying to understand this phenomena leaves me mostly confused.

@WisdomIsMisery says:
August 29, 2011 at 2:48 pm
First, I agree with everything @KatWebb84 said. And maybe that's the point. You should do what's best for YOU. If you can have sex with no strings attached, by all means, do you. If you cannot disassociate your feelings from your loins, then by all means, don’t have sex until you have a commitment.