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I am single. I think that's less a result of it being a bad idea as of not meeting many men who are interested in more than sex. I do live in NYC, after all.
But anyway, "withhold" might not be the right word. I'm not suggesting you give men an ultimatum and say, "If you don't call me your gf, you can't have the cookie." I'm suggesting that if they have no interest in committing to you (even down the line), that you not invest yourself even physically in these men.
@WisdomIsMisery says:
August 29, 2011 at 1:26 pm
@Tea: Honestly? Yes, but not many. BUT that premise is flawed. So, because men don’t predominately commit to women who withhold sex that means you’re not going to do it? That means you’re letting a man dictate what is best for you. Men, as is evidenced by this circular conversations we are engaging in, don’t let women dictate what is best for them so why should you let a man control you like that? If you withhold sex and he leaves or doesn’t commit, GOOD GOT DAMN RIDDANCE. He obviously only wanted one thing from you OR he didn’t think you were important enough in his life to get to know you beyond the physical. Why would you want a man like that in your life?
#PleaseRespond
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@KatWebb84 says:
August 29, 2011 at 1:39 pm
Good riddance is how I feel, but when you're single for a while, even for the right reasons (because no one of substance has approached you), as a woman, strange things happen.
Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make
Blowing More Than His ... Mind
Confessions of a Former Mistress
Dating After Marriage
Is Dating Harder if You’re Smarter?
Dating Over Fifty-Five
I am single. I think that's less a result of it being a bad idea as of not meeting many men who are interested in more than sex. I do live in NYC, after all.
But anyway, "withhold" might not be the right word. I'm not suggesting you give men an ultimatum and say, "If you don't call me your gf, you can't have the cookie." I'm suggesting that if they have no interest in committing to you (even down the line), that you not invest yourself even physically in these men.
@WisdomIsMisery says:
August 29, 2011 at 1:26 pm
@Tea: Honestly? Yes, but not many. BUT that premise is flawed. So, because men don’t predominately commit to women who withhold sex that means you’re not going to do it? That means you’re letting a man dictate what is best for you. Men, as is evidenced by this circular conversations we are engaging in, don’t let women dictate what is best for them so why should you let a man control you like that? If you withhold sex and he leaves or doesn’t commit, GOOD GOT DAMN RIDDANCE. He obviously only wanted one thing from you OR he didn’t think you were important enough in his life to get to know you beyond the physical. Why would you want a man like that in your life?
#PleaseRespond
My recent post Prostitution 2.0: I’m Not a Whore
@KatWebb84 says:
August 29, 2011 at 1:39 pm
Good riddance is how I feel, but when you're single for a while, even for the right reasons (because no one of substance has approached you), as a woman, strange things happen.