My Marriage Is Boring, and I Like It That Way
When It’s Your Husband’s Job to Kiss Another Woman
Marriage, According to the Bible: 6 Game-Changing Truths Revealed
Forget Mommy & Me, I'm Signing Up for Mommy Speed Dating
Some of My Best Friends Are Women, and My Wife Is Cool with That
No Friends of the Opposite Sex If You're Married
I’m Tired of Being the Divorced Dad
Feeling Unloved: Coping with Abandonment Issues Dating Tips
5 Signs that He’s Keeping Your Relationship a Secret
My Man Doesn’t Have to Be My Best Friend
The Intimidation Factor: Men Are Afraid to Date Me
What Happens When You Date Someone Fresh Out of a Relationship
My Resting Bitch Face Doesn’t Mean I’m a Bitch
He Said I Wasn’t Marriage Material

-After 5 days of silence she called and left a voicemail the day before Xmas eve. I didn’t reply.
- She sent me a Merry Xmas text filled with emoticons on Xmas. I didn’t reply.
-3 days after Xmas she asked if I wanted to “how about holiday sex no strings attached zero dark thirty?” I didn’t reply.
- the next day I replied with “Sure”.
- the day after that she invited me to the movies, made dinner afterward and had awesome sex. Nothing regarding hard feelings ever came up and I acted like nothing ever happened.

This is just one example but what I learned was my silence towards her made her want to win me back. She went from “fuck him I’m not going to talk to him anymore” to “ok I should check on him before he goes home for Xmas” to “ok I should wish him merry Xmas before its over” to “ok fine let me see if he wants to fuck and watch one of his action movies. ”

TL;DR give her the silent and indifferent treatment but if commenters unanimously agree to do otherwise then listen to them.


  • Anonymous
on January 8, 2013 at 6:04 pm
This post is so right on time it’s uncanny. I was seeing this chick for 5 months. Complete party girl, me and her would go out raving doing all kinds of stuff i really liked her. Me being aloof, she’d be telling me that i’m the only one she hasn’t been able to figure out in her life, wanted to meet my parents when they came to visit me and on top of this she used to live 3h away she’d always visit me. All this time i was never sure if i was the only one in her life but i was sure she’d keep coming back.
Anyways she went south africa for 6months to travel and stayed over at mine before she flew. However she came back early before xmas because she ran out of money and didn’t tell me she was back. Ever since that i’ve been really pissed off but haven’t shown any signs of anger. It’s been distant texts and no phone calls or skype. She msgd me over xmas but that’s about the only time she initiated a txt.