Handling Different Tastes With Your Significant Other
Feel First Date Panic? Let's Do Lunch!
The Reason You Aren't Dating Is: 6 Tips To Approachability
How to Get Out Of The Dating Funk!
I'm All That! Be It Or Lose It
Are They Stuck On Their Ex?
Divorced with No Kids? Ex Etiquette
Tips for Getting Him to Commit to a Relationship...Or Not
How Men Pursue Love
Advice on the 3 Steps for Breaking Up and 3 Tips for Giving Someone the Axe
How To Recover From A Mistake When Dating
Should You Reconcile With Your Ex Or Not?
How to Escape and Become More Than Just A Friend
Understanding What Your Feelings of Discomfort Mean for Your Relationship
Decode Man-Think: Learn What Men Want and Care About
What it Means When He Starts Ignoring Your Emails and Phone Calls
I have been in a relationship on and off for almost 4 years. We are currently off because I broke up with him and moved across the country to live in San Francisco with the intention of "finding myself". That was months ago and now that I am away from him and my friends and family, I miss him and want to be with him again. Except now it's impossible because I've moved. He came here to visit a few weeks ago and I swear I fell back in love with him all over again. I feel like our relationship might work out now. He says he wants to marry me but is waiting for me to grow up and find myself. What do I do? I feel like all I want is him. This was not supposed to happen...
Moving is a big transition and is one of life’s biggest stressors. In case you’re wondering, the others are marriage, divorce and having children. So, its no surprise that with that a big move created stress in your life, and you’re looking for support in your old comfort zones – your family, friends and your ex-boyfriend. You haven’t had a chance to build a new life in your new home in your new city so when you feel stressed and blue the first place you look to is your old supports – across the country.
Moving Stress
The problem is that you’re looking to your ex-boyfriend for comfort because you don’t have a support network in your new home. Even though your ex-boyfriend is across the country, he’s not a hook up or a short-term boyfriend. You spent four years with him, so he is almost like family, and when he comforts you, it feels safe -- especially all the way across the country. It’s easy to forget the reasons that you broke up with him in the first place because you’re getting your immediate needs met when he calls or visits you – and your immediate needs are, not feeling lonely.
Feel First Date Panic? Let's Do Lunch!
The Reason You Aren't Dating Is: 6 Tips To Approachability
How to Get Out Of The Dating Funk!
I'm All That! Be It Or Lose It
Are They Stuck On Their Ex?
Divorced with No Kids? Ex Etiquette
Tips for Getting Him to Commit to a Relationship...Or Not
How Men Pursue Love
Advice on the 3 Steps for Breaking Up and 3 Tips for Giving Someone the Axe
How To Recover From A Mistake When Dating
Should You Reconcile With Your Ex Or Not?
How to Escape and Become More Than Just A Friend
Understanding What Your Feelings of Discomfort Mean for Your Relationship
Decode Man-Think: Learn What Men Want and Care About
What it Means When He Starts Ignoring Your Emails and Phone Calls
I have been in a relationship on and off for almost 4 years. We are currently off because I broke up with him and moved across the country to live in San Francisco with the intention of "finding myself". That was months ago and now that I am away from him and my friends and family, I miss him and want to be with him again. Except now it's impossible because I've moved. He came here to visit a few weeks ago and I swear I fell back in love with him all over again. I feel like our relationship might work out now. He says he wants to marry me but is waiting for me to grow up and find myself. What do I do? I feel like all I want is him. This was not supposed to happen...
Moving is a big transition and is one of life’s biggest stressors. In case you’re wondering, the others are marriage, divorce and having children. So, its no surprise that with that a big move created stress in your life, and you’re looking for support in your old comfort zones – your family, friends and your ex-boyfriend. You haven’t had a chance to build a new life in your new home in your new city so when you feel stressed and blue the first place you look to is your old supports – across the country.
Moving Stress
The problem is that you’re looking to your ex-boyfriend for comfort because you don’t have a support network in your new home. Even though your ex-boyfriend is across the country, he’s not a hook up or a short-term boyfriend. You spent four years with him, so he is almost like family, and when he comforts you, it feels safe -- especially all the way across the country. It’s easy to forget the reasons that you broke up with him in the first place because you’re getting your immediate needs met when he calls or visits you – and your immediate needs are, not feeling lonely.