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Here is an example. If you have a fear of heartache, your deepest driving desire may be to keep you safe. If you associate love with pain, no matter how hard you try, safety will trump any potential for a real romance because your unconscious deems love as dangerous territory. The unconscious mind is always moving you from pain to pleasure.
These protective mechanisms of the ego are not bad. Having a strong ego served you when you were younger and was important for your survival and strong state of mind. Now that you are older, understanding the ego’s defenses can help you bring them to light so you can transcend the ego and move toward a higher desire based on love instead of fear.
There is no need to remove, heal or clear these unconscious beliefs. If you attempt to go about correctly yourself that way, you will be focusing on the past, making yourself wrong and actually giving more focus and energy to what you don’t want. You will also build more walls around your heart. Here’s an insight for you…you cannot get rid of belief, you can only outgrow it in consciousness.
You don’t need to do any fancy tricks. Look at your results and then the actions that led to that result. Your every day deeds are showing you what you believe in and what you are committed to in life. You will notice where you are resisting and that is exactly pointing to the fear that is keeping you from love.
There is a famous quote about going on the path of least resistance, but that will only keep you in your comfort zone. Resistance is there to warn you that you are moving into new territory. If you have been single for a long time or never had a good relationship, resistance is a sign you are moving into the RIGHT direction. You are moving toward a new experience of love.